Term: Communal tables.
Appearance: Long, uncomfortable and back in fashion.
Who would voluntarily eat with strangers as an adult with free will? The younger generation, apparently. According to data from the restaurant reservations company Resy, "Nine out of ten of young adult patrons say they like communal tables, versus just six in ten of older generations".
Group dining in nationalistic eateries was a big thing during the second world war, actually ā there were about 2,500 of them, backed by Winston Churchill.
This might seem strange to you, I know, but communal tables can be fun! As the Resy CEO notes: "They naturally turn dinner into a shared experience," and "The excitement lies in not knowing your neighbor!"
Or being squeezed next to a fitness enthusiast eating chicken to fuel his "farmerās carries"? Or a social media user filming you accidentally in their video while eating a salad? You have to remember: young adults ā the most digitally connected group, who came of age during the pandemic, and many of whom started careers remotely ā enjoy organized group events. This same desire behind the rise of young peopleās running clubs, hiking outings and art nights: theyāre seeking real-world interactions.
You might not fancy it, but many youths feel isolated (47% of them, as per an Oxfam survey released this summer). In a 2023 US report a third of males aged between 18 to 23 reported they hadnāt seen anyone outside their household in the previous seven days. Isnāt it a good thing theyāre getting out and sharing meals with new people?
Conversing with new people is beneficial, too: it gives us a greater sense of belonging. Additionally the Resy survey points out another advantage: one in seven survey respondents said theyād landed a date at a communal dining experience. Since young people are leaving dating apps, this gives them a shot at a unplanned "meet-cute".
My work here is done.
Appropriate comment: "Young adults believe shared meals are a total success."
Donāt say: "Itās all fun and games until someone drops a katsu prawn on your Y2K baggy jeans."